Claire-Dee Lim

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Bye-bye, Jessica McClintock

Jessica McClintock, dress designer for 40 years, has announced her retirement. She was acclaimed for attiring prom-goers in frothy confections of tulle, satin, and velvet. She made teenage girls look sweet and age appropriate rather than like strippers in training.

The San Francisco offices in Potrero Hill closed its doors November 2013. The 83-year-old McClintock stated that she was retiring not because of her age, but the market had changed. While the company still brought in $100 million in sales, it could no longer compete with the Topshops of the world. Girls were forgoing the princess look and instead opting for more trendy, high-fashion styles.

Gunne Sax dressI felt a wave of nostalgia upon hearing this news. When I was in high school, I had a cherished Gunne Sax dress. This was the label of her semi-formal line. It was a cream-colored maxi-dress with a lace-up front. Notice I said “maxi.” That’s what we called long dresses in the late 70s. It was the ultimate in hippie chic. I adored this dress, and wore it to my violin recitals and orchestra concerts.

When I lived in San Francisco in the late 80s and 90s I cultivated a vintage, punky style mixed with a heavy dose of irony. I scoured thrift stores and yard sales for clothing I could deconstruct and repurpose. I often dropped by the Jessica McClintock outlet store, keeping an eye out for sample sales. One time I scored a red, bubble-skirted dress with spaghetti straps. I wore it with fishnet stockings, black 50s pumps, and topped it with a leather jacket. The outfit was a big hit in the clubs; I looked like a Filipino Cyndi Lauper.

Farewell, Jessica McClintock, your dresses will be missed … at the prom and at the club.

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Dick Pics: Is Timing Everything?

Dick pics are back in the news again. This time Captain America has been busted for sending a photo of his penis to a sixteen-year-old girl. No, not the actor Chris Evans, who plays the superhero in the Marvel series. Although there are probably images of his photoshopped head attached to a torso—shlong out—circulating online this very second. This Captain America worked at the Universal Studios theme park in Florida. He had his photo taken with an underage girl. After she posted it on Instagram, he subsequently tracked her down, struck up an online “friendship,” and before you could say “Avengers Assemble,” he sent the dick pic along with explicit texts.

Let’s put aside the fact that a minor was involved. That’s its own brand of ew-inducing, inappropriateness as well as illegal. (The perp alleges he didn’t believe the girl when she revealed her age.) It’s his quote about why he sent the pictures, which raises questions about dick pics in general: “he did not know what he was thinking when he sent the photos of his penis” and he claimed he did not know “what he was expecting to receive from sending the photos.” Yeah right, dude, you knew what you were doing and what you wanted to get in return. And it wasn’t a bunch of texts filled with emojis of bunnies and hearts.

Dick pics are sent to arouse sexual interest. No mystery there. What I find curious is how they figure into the romantic trajectory (between adults, here). What’s the timing? When’s the best time to play that card to get the optimal result? A guy sends one too early, the woman could get turned off. However, one might be a titillating surprise after a date that included say, a steamy make-out session. Or do women care to see penis pictures on their electronic devices during any stage of the relationship? Scientific studies have shown that women do respond to visual sexual stimuli. The answers boil down to a woman’s personal preference and who’s dick is it anyway.

As this hilarious dick pic, selfie parody demonstrates, they are more about the sender than the receiver. No mystery there either.

 

 

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They Came Together: Amy Poehler and Paul Rudd in a Rom-Com. I’m in!

Amy Poehler is a comedic goddess. Ever since a Chihuahua nibbled her “breast implant” in Mean Girls and she urinated in the sink in Baby Mama, we knew she wasn’t afraid to push the limits for a laugh. Now she’s in a romantic comedy with the adorable Paul Rudd. Yay for us! From the trailer, it looks like the movie tracks the romantic comedy conventions—falling in love, romantic bliss followed by some crushing disillusionment. Will they or won’t they break up? But who cares! We eat up these stories for the couple’s romantic journey. We want to see them overcome obstacles and prevail. Who doesn’t like a happy ending? (If you secretly answered otherwise, then you have the heart of an insect.)  And when you put love and laughter together, there’s nothing better. If the title and the poster are any indication of the movie’s saucy humor, we’re in for a funny, romantic ride.

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