Claire-Dee Lim

writer, teacher, traveler, and lazy gardener

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“Chinito”: A Tagalog Pop Song Makes a Home in My Brain

Every time I return from a trip to the Philippines my head is practically exploding with memorable experiences. I’ll be creating a video series to share what is fascinating, beautiful and bewildering about my birthplace. So stay tuned! They’re coming soon!

In the meantime, I have to share this sweet pop song called Chinito by Yeng Constantino. I heard it everywhere: on the car radio and in the malls. I even heard it blaring out of a bar at 8 a.m. when I was walking along the Legazpi waterfront. Like all good pop songs, it’s about romantic stirrings, has a bouncy melody and great song structure, and is maddeningly infectious. My understanding of Tagalog is weak so my cousin translated that the song is about a girl who is attracted to a Chinese boy, endearingly referred to as “Chinito.” She’s hoping that he’ll notice her. The video is super cute, too. See for yourself.

 

 

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SPY: Summer’s Best

Forget the super heroes and dinosaurs, my pick for best summer movie 2015 is Spy. It’s an inspired action-comedy send-up of every 007 trope you’ve ever loved: far-fetched gadgets, improbable action sequences and gun play, snooty casinos, luxury living, globetrotting locations, majestic musical score and so much more.

R-rated trailer: you’ve been warned.

Melissa McCarthy plays the smart, resourceful and underutilized woman behind the flash super spy, played by the tuxedoed Jude Law. She’s heartfelt, winning and most of all FUNNY! Her character and performance flourish before our eyes as she kicks ass in the world of international espionage. We care about her as we’re busting a gut with laughter. McCarthy also plays off a terrific supporting cast:

Rose Byrne: As the Bulgarian villain with an English accent, she’s wickedly funny and her Marie Antoinette-ish hair deserves an award.

Jason Statham: Star of Crank and many other action movies, he’s clearly having cheeky fun playing a mental case and rogue spy.

Allison Janney: As the deadpan CIA Deputy Director … we could all learn from her managerial style: deadpan, decisive and she promotes from within!

Hats off to writer-director Paul Feig for continuing to tell stories about unique, strong and multidimensional women, and help prove that yes, women are very very funny. I can’t wait to see what he does with the upcoming all-female Ghostbusters.

What are you waiting for? See Spy now!

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Away We Go: Travel Necessities

I’ve got a trip to the Philippines coming up and I’ve started to think about what to pack. The Philippines has basically two seasons: dry (March to May) and rainy (June to November). There’s ostensibly a “cold season” (December to February), but temps are well into the 80s-90s and humidity is around 70%, so who are we kidding?

For me there is only one season that matters the most: bug season. And it’s all year round! Mosquitoes, black flies, no-see ums, devour me. If I’m in a room of 50 people and there’s one mosquito, it will find me like a heat seeking missile. During one trip years ago, my leg was so chewed up the bites had merged into one gigantic itchy welt. I recall whimpering, a lot.

Besides the usual passport, money and camera, insect repellant is my tropical must-have. Many swear by Deet-based sprays. After some of the toxic liquid spilled in my backpack and melted the inner plastic liner, I swore off the stuff. Imagine what it does to your flesh! I now use only citronella oil-based sprays and my secret anti-bite weapon: coverage. I wear long, lightweight pants and no shorts. The less juicy, exposed flesh, the less temptation for those wretched bugs.

Throughout my years of going to faraway places, I’ve picked up some tips. Here are a few that will help make your journey easier:

Forgo checked luggage and take carry-on whenever you can

Bringing only a carry-on bag forces you to travel light. I follow designer Diane von Furstenberg’s packing rule: if you don’t plan on wearing an item more than three times, leave it at home. With just a carry-on, you can waltz off the plane and avoid the slog at the baggage carousel. And you never have to worry about the airline losing your stuff.

Learn your hellos, please and thank you’s

Knowing these few phrases in the language of your destination will go a long way. Before a trip to Korea, I watched YouTube videos to learn them. Proper Korean pronunciation is super hard, so I had to practice a lot.

Speaking these phrases, shows your hosts and people you interact with that you respect their culture and made the effort to learn about it. In turn, you get positive interactions and better service. This is especially true in France. Entering a shop without saying hello to the owner or sales associate will peg YOU as rude, and not worthy of civility in return.

Alert your bank

Let your credit card company and bank, if you plan on using your ATM card to withdraw money, know when and where you’ll be traveling. Being unable to withdraw money is heart stopping, so contact them before you go. Otherwise you might get stuck without cash.

Bring a copy of your passport

If it’s lost or stolen—mine was, long story—a copy will come in handy at the U.S. Embassy. I usually keep the passport in a safe place where I’m staying and roam about with the copy.

Enjoy the moment

After all the preparation—I admittedly do a lot of research: what to do, where to go, what to eat—let the now unfurl. It’s the unexpected moments that make traveling such an excellent adventure.

Do you have some travel essentials? Please share!

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