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New Fall TV Rom-Coms: Too Many “Zachs”

I suspect that one of the reasons why Zach Galifianakis has lost weight is to separate himself from the copycats now populating primetime TV. The new fall season offers three new romantic comedies. A to Z and Women Are Crazy, whoops, I meant Marry Me, have two supporting characters that are obvious Zach-types: tubby, boy-men with personalities that are bizarre and who say inappropriate and snarky things. The other series, Manhattan Love Story, has male characters that are fit and trim but sport lots of facial hair and snarkiness so they might as well be Zach-types. I can hear the TV execs now when discussing casting.

Exec 1: “We need Zach Galifianakis for the thankless role of doofy sidekick.”

Exec 2: “He’s skinny now.”

Exec 1: “Which means he’s probably not funny anymore. Bummer … then let’s roundup some actors who are like the old funny fatso Zach.”

This really isn’t a post about shameless casting attempts; it’s about romantic comedies and which one I’ll continue watching this season.

A to Z

This one’s my favorite. The prologue, narrated by the authoritative yet personable Katey Sagal, states: Andrew and Zelda will date for eight months, three weeks, five days and one hour. This program is a comprehensive account of their relationship – from A to Z.” Already I’m intrigued because there’s a built in clock in this relationship. I want to see where it goes. Also, the pilot had some nice touches that pulled me in. The leads are cute and charming, and there’s real chemistry between the actors. Andrew is the romantic one who works for an online dating company. Zelda is the practical one and is no surprise, an attorney. The couple’s sidekicks/Greek Chorus are made up of the Zach G-type, who while weird has some funny things to say and Zelda’s co-worker galpal, Stephie. She acts as a clever foil. Big plus she’s played by Lenora Chrichlow, the ghosty girl from the British Being Human series. Episode three (letter “C”) dealt with online privacy and trust issues in insightful and amusing ways. This series has all the makings of a modern world rom-com, so I think I’ll make it to episode “Z.”

Manhattan Love Story

A rom-com set in Manhattan—I’m in! At least, that’s what I had hoped. The pilot starts off by introducing us to Dana. We hear her inner thoughts in voiceover as she drools over the many designer handbags she passes by on the street. It’s cute and funny. So far so good. We meet Peter and hear his thoughts as he ogles passing women. Ugh, not so good. My husband once said to me, “If you knew what men were regularly thinking about it, you’d be horrified.” Well, that about sums up my thoughts about Peter. In romantic comedies, we’re supposed to be excited, intrigued and drawn to the hero. He may at first be unlikable, e.g., Mr. Darcy, but as we get to know him, we’ll come to love him as much as the heroine. While I like the inner thoughts/voiceover device in general, I don’t want to hear Peter’s. They’re too icky and not funny. I want some mystery in my romantic lead. There’s no mystery to Peter; he’s a douchebag.

Update (10/24/14): According to USA Today, “The network (ABC) Friday dropped the low-rated Tuesday comedy, making it the first cancellation of the fall broadcast season.” Apparently, other viewers agreed with me.

Marry Me

Romantic comedies are about rooting for two people to fall in love. The couple is often mismatched, which makes the journey of how they come together so much fun: she’s a neatnik, he’s a slob; she’s an animal rights activitist, he’s a big game hunter; and my favorite, she’s slightly neurotic and he’s laidback. In this show, Annie (played by Casey Wilson) doesn’t just have adorable quirks and foibles: she’s crazy! … as in out-of-her-mind-why-isn’t-her-boyfriend-breaking-up-with-her-right-now crazy. In the pilot, she launches into an ugly rant about why Jake, her boyfriend, didn’t propose to her on their vacation. She is so obnoxious, mean and unflattering, I disliked her instantly, and never recovered from this. Annie realizes what she’s done and tries to make up for the situation. She tells Jake, “For some reason I just explode my life. This is why I need you.” Jake responds, “I need your explosions; you challenge me.” What man says that let alone believes it?! Well, these two can continue to challenge each other in their own special way; I just won’t be watching.

Have you been watching the Fall season? Tell me which is your favorite.

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Gone Girl: 3 Things NOT To Do In A Relationship

**Contains spoilers**

Who didn’t stay up until 2 am reading Gone Girl, or run out opening weekend to see the movie adaptation? Aside from being an entertaining, lurid psychodrama, I found the story quite an instructive primer about “What NOT to do in a relationship.” So through the lens of Nick and Amy Dunne, follow these tips and you won’t end up in a loveless, desperate and fearing-for-your-life marriage or relationship.

Don’t …

1.      … pretend to be someone you are not. Amy’s brilliant “cool girl” diary entry spoke to many women, including me. She succinctly laid out how women will shift their personas to suit the tastes of the men they’re interested in. Amy willingly did just that when she met Nick. But her up-for-anything-size-2-shaved-pussy artifice could only last so long. Pretending can be exhausting and hard to maintain especially during stressful situations, e.g., unemployment. Under these conditions, the true self can emerge; and in Amy’s case, her psychopathic nature bloomed.

Pretense is also dishonest to the person you’re with and ultimately to yourself. All your choices are to please another, and when that happens, hello, resentment. Amy’s resentment—the sacrifices she believed she had made personally, logistically and financially—built up so much that she exploded.

2.      … turn to cheating. Notice how I said “turn to cheating?” Cheating in general causes damage and breaks trust in a relationship. During strife, it keeps you from addressing what’s not working. Nick and Amy were having issues. Rather than facing them, Nick skeeved out and took the lazy route. He had an affair. Sure, sleeping with his student made him feel invigorated and appreciated but it also distracted him. He wasn’t attuned to the shifts in his wife’s attitude. Granted, she was putting on a good face. Cheating only makes things worse and if discovered could lead to all sorts of foul consequences. In Nick and Amy’s case, his duplicity lead to character assassination, potential death penalty, media circus, and throat slashing.

3.      … expect your relationship to be like it was when you first met. Falling in love is truly a dreamy experience. There’s nothing like the thrill of discovering another has the same interests, totally gets you and makes you so amorous you can’t see straight. The effervescence lasts for about a year, maybe a little more if you’re lucky. Try as we might, real life intrudes. That’s what happened to Nick and Amy. Financial turmoil trounced all those warm fuzzy vibes. Amy desperately tried to maintain the facade that all was right in their romantic universe. A lot of good that did

In the movie, rather than communicating with Nick that she didn’t appreciate having her face ground into a mirror while he took her from behind, Amy pushed down her feelings. Then, all sorts of histrionics and perversity ensued. Ironically, the couple found themselves having to pretend to the media and the world that they were something they were not. So what does this mean for non-twisted types? Relationships evolve and if you keep lamenting for the early days, you might miss the many golden ones to come.

Who knew Gone Girl could be so instructive? If you learned of other relationship don’ts from Nick and Amy, let me know.

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